TRISTAN

[simon]

oh Bambino i thought you were mad at me *Phew

[Cassiel]

Slightly but you have posted some time in the past year or so. Every time I talked to Bambino he said he was coming back and never did.

[simon]

Oh I see

[Genobee]

(Late Post as i had to deal with perent issues...) Okay, bottom line here people is this is getting way blown out of proportion. There is a thing in the rules that says that you cant tell people where they can or cant post. Grow up and deal with it, the point of RPing is to ROLE PLAY YOUR OWN CHARACTER!!!! NOT THE OTHER PERSONS!!! people react and that’s the point. People do IRL just walk up and be idiots and there’s nothing you can do but be mad. That doesn’t mean it is right especially in relation to a "senior" member of the board not taking into consideration the new status of the members. I would suggest that this subject be dropped and handled quietly and adult like (though that may be hard for you who keep trying to get the last word.) This is a game so play by the rules and grow up. There is no point having all this drama, neither side at this point is correct and this is getting worse and worse. I dont mean to be blunt but jeeza this is getting way blown out of proportion, its easy enough to ask the person in a private message to take there post down if its that big a deal not get mad and quit. I would be willing to bet Tam would have taken it down if asked nicely and concern was expressed calmly.

[Kaden]

I think you fail to realize that the topic has long since been dropped.

[Genobee]

Better late the never more or less for future refrence.

[simon]

....That was funny...

[cassandra]

you know what? it was really great for you to come in here with that attitude AFTER The situtation had been resolved and everyone was doing just that. And yes, I DO get it that people are free to post anywhere, that wasn't complaint. Slow down and read before you start spouting off and you'll see what my complaint was. She didn't post in the thread, she ruined it. Where can you go after you've been set on fire?

This happens in real life? yah, people act like jerks all the time, your post, well after the fact is all the proof we need of this. and in real life there are consequences for your actions. I wasn't asking that she be punished, or banished, just that she be toned down. i have the right to find her manic and attention seeking antics as annoying as you have the right to find them entertaining.

And now, I have a suggestion for YOU. Before you butt in to tell someone how to act, how to feel, and how to think, and what to deal with and in what to deal with it. Take the time to make sure they haven't already dealt with it.

[Kaden]

And with that, Pandora's Box was opened once again. Leave it to the ignorance of man.

Is it wrong that I laughed at "Where can you go after you've been set on fire?" That was great.

[Genobee]

If i may point out, I didint openly attack you i was just making an observation. Clearly the battle for the last word does not stop. If this was over and done with there would be no malice in your additude even as you look back apon it. If we are to go to proveable points, your conduct on how you acted was very unbecoming. That is the real truth here. I stayed neutral and to the facts when i posted and knew with all intention of being late. Side note on your fire comment look to what i said about asking for it to be fixed.

[simon]

i got a chortle out of it

[cassandra]

I love the fact that you came BACK to chide ME for having to have the LAST word!! I'm typical female, if you're going to reopen an argument, i'm gonna argue that baby to the dirt.

My behavior was unbecoming??? This whole thing was started by an apology from Tam, AFTER she'd caused a new player to leave the board. An apology usually means that you're acknowledging the fact that you've been wrong.

And if that wasn't an open attack, then what was it? Let me enlighten you, it WAS an open attack, just not a direct one.

I think my points and complaints were valid ones. You should be free to post whereever you wish, but not sabatoge the existing thread.

And if its so okay to say and do whatever you think and feel here, then WHY are you all up my nether regions over my doing exactly that?

[Kaden]

Cass, you're killing me here. I'm dying of laughter.

[Genobee]

I think that your.."sabatoge", is in the eye of the beholder. Before your friend left, did you or did you not try to resolve the issue calmly with tam before an appology had to be made? And i hope you are not taking pride in wanting to beat the topic into the dirt, i thought it already had been and i was posting a late post to put my 2 cents in. Funny thing is i see Tam taking responsibility when she didint 100% need to.

[cassandra]

Thank you, i try. And yes, it was okay for you to laugh over my where do you go after you've been set on fire, cuz when i went back and re read it, i laughed really bad myself. but, really, where DO you go?

The thing is, we were having a moment, and his being set on fire ruined it for him. Being a male with the inherent fragile male ego, he took it personally and left. By her ruining his moment, she ruined mine as well, so then I took it personally.

And even though our slant on it now is indeed humerous, what actually happened still isn't to me.

But, Genobee if you're so hot to handle this as it would be handled in real life, she used her pet as a weapon, put her in prison.